I started The Black Sheep Survives as a safe space where I could voice the truth about abuse particularly that runs in the family generational cycle. After finding out that abuse is suffered in silence, I quickly realized that I was not alone. I decided to start helping people figure out the abuse cycle in their own lives. The Black Sheep Survives has evolved into a community safe space where people can voice their own experiences in a place that brings them validation and support.
LOOKING FOR ANSWERS?
Chances are that you found this site searching for answers. The cycle of abuse is one of those things that is conditioned in our consciousness so when we articulate how we feel to an abuser it is immediately shut down, gaslighted, stonewalled, deflected... This teaches the victim not to speak up about the abuse and learn to placate their abuser. But deep inside your intuition keeps alerting you of the danger. I am an advocate specializing in abuse and trauma recovery from narcissistic relationships. I also coach victims and survivors to understand their history from their past into the present.
I can be of service by:
1. Helping you understand the cycle of abuse.
2. Analyze and understand your personal situation.
3. Provide you the tools to manage the conflict in your present life.
4. Help and empower you to how to free from the Fear Obligation and Guilt (FOG) in your life.
Ask yourself these questions and write down your answer honestly.
Are you feeling stuck in your life and are unsure of how to proceed?
Are you feeling you are having trouble explaining yourself to certain people?
Do you wonder how you can cut the ties with people who make you feel bad?
Do you feel tied down and exhausted around certain people?
Are you wondering if you are being manipulated by someone you love?
Do you secretly desire to become more assertive with the people in your life?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, I can help you start to heal. I know that you have the strength not just to survive, but to truly thrive. I provide a safe space for you to feel heard if you are or have been in an abusive relationship. I give you the hope for a better future by empowering you to become aware of personality behaviors. I provide you with the practical tools to deal with these unhealthy relationships. So you can then begin to move from helplessness to healing and safely move forward in your life.