- I am here to offer an unfiltered approach to people who are or have been in narcissistic relationships. Many people struggle because narcissistic relationships are rooted in abuse, not conflict. Thus, it is difficult to find people who truly understand the devastation that occurs in this type of relationship. Narcissistic relationships aren't limited to romantic relationships and can involve parents, siblings, and peers. 





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The chances are that you found this site searching for answers. The cycle of narcissistic abuse is an experience that the abuser conditions into our consciousness through lived experiences. When victims articulate how they feel to an abuser, the abuser will immediately shut it down, gaslight, stonewall, deflect and manipulate. This method of abuse teaches the victim not to speak up about their experiences in the relationship. Therefore the victim immediately learns to placate their abuser to de-escalate the abuse. But deep inside, the victim's intuition keeps them alert of the danger they are currently experiencing or have experienced.

I am a consultant specializing in abuse and trauma recovery from narcissistic relationships. I also help victims and survivors to safely unravel their experiences, giving them the words and tools to understand their past and present abuse.

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