I have been working as an advocate and consultant specializing in narcissistic trauma and abuse recovery since 2016. I specialize in helping people identify and achieve their personal goals by introducing them to healthy coping skills. Our sessions are focused on the issues that are causing them distress, anxiety, and stress. Mainly, I have experience with high conflict individuals who leave their victims drained after an interaction stemming from narcissistic behavior. I take great pride in the progress and success of my clients.

I am looking forward to getting to know you! 

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Hello I'm



Ever since I can remember, I enjoyed helping others while providing them with advice specifically tailored to their needs. I practiced counseling throughout my life. I utilize the gift of active listening, which is a fundamental element of my work in advice-giving.


Since 2016, I’ve helped my clients break through the areas they are currently unable to see due to their traumatic events that have occurred in their lives. Life is too short to deal with the same cycle of abuse manufactured by people who get supply by mistreating others. 


I have endured abuse in my life for decades in a generational familiar relationship cycle. Under the cycle of abuse early on, I always knew something was not quite right. The truth started to sink in after decades of scapegoating, golden child antics, enormous discards, triangulation, manipulation, and breaking several no contact boundaries. I moved away from all the pain and started to focus on living a healthier life.


Enduring decades of abuse seems a bit like trying to put together a puzzle you cannot complete. You know deep down you are missing pieces, but you cannot seem to find them. When you uncover the extent of abuse, you will more easily see the pieces that make up the puzzle. I can help you heal by helping you process your story in a safe space, and we can start discovering the missing pieces together.


I have first-hand experience in dealing with high conflict individuals. These people take all your energy daily. Through the years, I have learned different tools through my practice and my own experience to help regain my strength to empower myself. It was not an easy feat, but through using my methods, I have restarted a life that belongs to myself and those I value the most.


I have learned not only to survive but to thrive after abuse. I have a new love for living life and being able to reach my goals. I am a wife and a mother of two fun loving twins who keep me on my toes.


Master of Science in Conflict Analysis and Resolution from Nova Southeastern University

B.A. in Interdisciplinary Studies from University of North Dakota

A.A. in Dietetics and Nutrition


40 Hour General Mediation in Texas from Dispute Resolution Center in Montgomery

Family Mediation, Certified in Texas from Dispute Resolution Center in Montgomery

Trauma Informed Care Training from Department of Family Protective Services

Domestic Violence Training from Texas Council of Family Violence

CLE - 42.75 Hours

Ethics Credit CEU - 7.50 Hours


You can follow my life after abuse on Instagram @roxiesafdia


The best part of healing is that it gives you the confidence to live your life on your terms. Healing is not linear and it is a commitment for the rest of your life.


Contact me today to schedule a session. 

Narcissistic abuse needs to be addressed and spoken about in order to heal.

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