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Experience with high conflict behaviors

I have been working as a advocate and consultant specializing in narcissistic trauma and abuse recovery since 2016. I specialize in helping people identify and achieve their personal goals by coping with the issues that are causing them distress, anxiety, and stress. Particularly, I have experience with high conflict individuals who leave you drained after an interaction stemming from narcissistic behavior. I take great pride in the progress and success of my clients. I am looking forward to helping you. Get in touch to learn more.



I'm Roxanna Safdia

Ever since I can remember, I enjoyed helping others and providing them with advice specifically tailored to their needs. I practiced counseling throughout my life. I utilize the gift of active listening which is a fundamental element of my work in advice giving.

Since 2016, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that hold them back in life. Life's too short to be unhappy, unsure, or unfulfilled. Allow me to assist you in developing more effective ways to handle these issues that are standing in the way of your goals.


I have endured abuse in my personal life for decades in a family relationship cycle. Under the cycle of abuse early on, I always knew something was not quite right. The truth started to sink in after decades of scapegoating, golden child antics, enormous discards, triangulation, manipulation, and breaking several no contact boundaries. I moved away from all the pain and started to live a healing life.

Enduring decades of abuse seems a bit like having a puzzle you cannot complete. You know deep down you are missing pieces, but you cannot seem to find them. When you uncover the extent of abuse, you will find the adjoining pieces that make up the puzzle. That is where I come in. I can help you heal by validating your story and by helping you find the pieces you long for.

I have experience first hand in dealing with high conflict individuals who take all your energy on a daily basis. Through the years, I have learned different tools through my education practice as well as my own experience to help regain my strength to empower myself. It was not an easy feat but through using my methods I have restarted a life that belongs to myself and those people who I value the most.

Life After Abuse

My life after abuse is completely transformed. I am a wife and mother to two fun loving twins. I have a Masters of Science in Conflict Analysis and Resolution from Nova Southeastern University.

You can follow my life after abuse on Instagram @roxiesafdia

Healing is not an easy road, but it is worth it. You can have the life you deserve! The life without worrying about your painful past is closer than you think. Let us put an end to your suffering.

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